B. Feelings: I'm afraid to fail my students. I'm afraid to fail as a teacher. I'm afraid of running out of students in class.
D. Behavior. I am anxious about evaluation. I play an acquiescence role.
The idea that we should be thoroughly competent,
intelligent, and achieving in all possible respects. Instead of the idea that
we would better do rather than always need to do well, and accept ourselves as
quite imperfect creatures, who have general human limitations and specific
falibilities.
No human being can be fully competent in all aspects and in most of them. Trying to achieve success is fine, but forcing ourselves to succeed is the best way to make ourselves feel incompetent and incapable. It brings us most of stress and psychosomatic illness .
It is more desirable to focus on enjoying the process more than on the result. When we try to act well is more for our own satisfaction than to please others. We must question often ourselves if we are struggling to achieve a specific objective, or to please others. In the struggle to achieve our goals we must accept our mistakes and confusion instead of being terrified by them. We must accept that everything is not under our control and accept the fact that human beings are not perfect.
Apart from that, am I responsible for my student´s feelings? Is there any solution to solve both, students' lack of motivation, and govermnent´s rules and bureaucracy?
I hate to fail at anything. 1 2 3 4 5 6
I like to be successful in anything but I do not feel I can achieve it 6 5 4 3 2 1
For me it is extremely important to success everything I do. 1 2 3 4 5 6
I do not mind doing things that I can not do all right. 6 5 4 3 2 1
I can enjoy on activity itself without matter how good I am at doing them. 6 5 4 3 2 1
I realized that this is the second time I have this 2nd misbelief. In fact, in the following test I scored a high puntuation, which means that this is one of my "cognitive style".
I hate to fail at anything. 1 2 3 4 5 6
I like to be successful in anything but I do not feel I can achieve it 6 5 4 3 2 1
For me it is extremely important to success everything I do. 1 2 3 4 5 6
I do not mind doing things that I can not do all right. 6 5 4 3 2 1
I can enjoy on activity itself without matter how good I am at doing them. 6 5 4 3 2 1
Click on this links to go to the tests
Evaluation about misbeliefs

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