Worry vs anxiety
Worry is an emotion related to the belief “ I hope that this will not happen, and it will be bad luck if happens “. Whereas, anxiety
appears when the person believes that “ this might happen and if so, it would be horrible”.
Sadness vs depression
It is thought that sadness appears when a person believes
that “ I have been unlucky because of having suffered this loss, but there is
no reason for why this should not have
happened ”. However, depression is related to this belief: “ I should not have
suffered this loss, and it is terrible that it has been happened the way it was”.
Pain vs culpability
Pain feelings appear when a person recognises that he or she
has done something bad in public or privately, but he or she accepts him and
herself as a human who can make mistakes. Person feels bad because of commited
act but not because of him or herself while the individual thinks: “ I would
rather I did not things bad, but if it
happens “bad luck”. A person feels guilty when people jugde themselves as bad,
wicked, rotten or malign. In this case, people feel bad either because of their
acts or because of themselves, as they think: “ I must not do things bad, and
if it happens I am horrible and wicked”.
Disappointment vs
shame/ embarrassment
A person feels disappointed when behaves “in a stupid way”
in public, and although it is recognised
this act as a stupid, people accept themselves. However, a person feels ashamed
when she or he can see that behavior has been “stupid” and person put the blame
on her or himself for doing something it has not been done. On feeling shame or
embarrassment person usually foresees that audience will judge him or she
negatively, and in this case it is common to agree with these prejudgments.
Annoyance vs anger
/rage
Annoyance is felt when a person does not take into account a
rule of life of an individual. Although
one does not like the fact that
other person did, he or she is not
condemned by others. “ I do not like what this person did, and I would
rather it had happened, but this does not mean that he or she can break my
rules”. However, in the case of the anger the person thinks that the other
person canot break at all his or her rules and because of that, he or she is damned.
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